Dorothy Wellesley, Duchess of Wellington

Template:Short description Template:Use dmy dates Template:Use British English Dorothy Violet Wellesley, Duchess of Wellington (Template:Nee Ashton; 30 July 1889 – 11 July 1956<ref>Vita Sackville-West, ‘Wellesley , Dorothy Violet, duchess of Wellington (1889–1956)’, rev. Clare L. Taylor, Oxford Dictionary of National Biography, Oxford University Press, 2004, accessed 22 October 2008.</ref>), styled Lady Gerald Wellesley between 1914 and 1943, was an English author, poet, literary editor and socialite.

Early life and inheritance

She was born in White Waltham, the daughter of Col. Robert Ashton of Croughton, Cheshire (himself a second cousin of the 1st Baron Ashton of Hyde), descended from wealthy cotton manufacturers, and his wife (Lucy) Cecilia Dunn-Gardner. Her family nickname was "Dotty".

Robert Ashton was a wealthy Cheshire landowner; the family's country home was Croughton Cottage in Cheshire, and in the late 1890s their London residence was No. 21 Park Lane.<ref name="CheshireObserver1899-04-15" />

Dorothy's father Robert Ashton died aboard his yacht in July 1898;<ref name="DailyTelegraph1898-07-29-AshtonObit"> Template:Cite news </ref> his estate was valued at £123,639 for probate.<ref name="BirminghamPost1898-09-14-AshtonEstate"> Template:Cite news </ref> Less than a year later in April 1899,<ref name="CheshireObserver1899-04-15"> Template:Cite news </ref> her mother married the 10th Earl of Scarbrough;<ref name=":0">Template:Cite news</ref> the union produced Dorothy's half-sister Lady Serena Lumley (1901–2000).<ref name="jamesobit">{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref>

Dorothy's only brother, Robert Cecil Noel Ashton, died unmarried at the age of 24 in 1912. His gross estate was valued at £467,902 (Template:Inflation) with a net personality £374,920 from which approximately £77,000 in death duties was paid. Following the deaths of both her father and brother, Dorothy inherited much of the Ashton family's fortune.<ref name="BirminghamMail1912-07-08"> Template:Cite news </ref><ref name="RichmondTD1914-05-18"> Template:Cite news </ref>

Marriage and family

On 30 April 1914 Dorothy married Lord Gerald Wellesley at Church of St Bartholomew, Smithfield.<ref name="ChesterChronicle1914-05-02-MissAshtonWedding"> Template:Cite news </ref> Dorothy was given away by her stepfather Lord Scarborough.<ref name="ChesterChronicle1914-05-02-MissAshtonWedding" />

At the time of their marriage Lord Gerald was the third son of Arthur Wellesley, 4th Duke of Wellington, although the deaths of his two older brothers and nephew would later result in him succeeding as 7th Duke of Wellington in 1943.

The marriage was reported on by international newspapers, with some noting that Dorothy was the third heiress which her new mother-in-law the Duchess of Wellington had successfully married one of her sons to.<ref name="ChicagoTribune1914-05-18-WellesleyAshton"> Template:Cite news </ref>

The marriage produced two children:

1. Valerian Wellesley, 8th Duke of Wellington (2 July 1915 – 31 December 2014)
2. Lady Elizabeth Wellesley (26 December 1918 – 25 November 2013)

Lord and Lady Gerald Wellesley separated in 1922 but did not divorce. According to a 2009 memoir by her granddaughter, Lady Jane Wellesley, Dorothy Wellesley left her husband and children when she became the lover of Vita Sackville-West.<ref>Lady Jane Wellesley, Wellington: A Journey Through My Family (Weidenfeld & Nicolson, 2009).</ref> Wellesley and Sackville-West took several trips together, including one to Persia, with artist Marjorie Jebb and art historian Leigh Ashton.<ref>{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref>

After that relationship ended, for eight years Wellesley became the lover and companion of Hilda Matheson (1888–1940), a BBC producer, who had herself had a three-year love affair with Sackville-West.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref> Matheson moved to "Penns in the Rocks", a farm on the Wellesley estate in the Sussex village of Withyham.<ref name="BLB">{{#invoke:citation/CS1|citation |CitationClass=web }}</ref> A certain distance was called for due to Dorothy's sometimes erratic and demanding behaviour. This relationship, a key stabilizer in both their lives, ended tragically with the death of Hilda during a routine thyroid operation.<ref>Michael Carney, "Stoker : The Life of Hilda Matheson OBE" (Published by the Author, 1999), pp. 87, 137.</ref>

Poetry

As Dorothy Wellesley, the name she took after her marriage to Lord Gerald Wellesley, she was the author of more than ten books, mostly of poetry, but including also Sir George Goldie, Founder of Nigeria (1934), and Far Have I Travelled (1952). She was editor for Hogarth Press of the Hogarth Living Poets series. She also edited The Annual in 1929.Template:Cn

According to W. B. Yeats, Wellesley was one of the greatest writers of the twentieth century.Template:Citation needed He gave her sixteen pages in his Oxford Book of Modern Verse 1892–1935 and praised her in the introduction.<ref>Template:Cite book</ref> According to Wellesley, "Within two minutes of our first meeting at my house he said: ‘You must sacrifice everything and everyone to your poetry'".<ref>Letters on Poetry from W. B. Yeats to Dorothy Wellesley (1940, Oxford University Press) edited by Kathleen Raine.</ref>

Yeats discovered her poetry while researching the Oxford Book of Modern Verse. He said "My eyes filled with tears. I read in excitement that was more delightful because it showed that I had not lost my understanding of poetry." Only later did he find who she was and what was her station in life.<ref>Keith Alldritt, W.B. Yeats: The Man and the Milieu (1997, John Murray), p. 336.</ref>

Yeats scholar R. F. Foster, however, has written that she was "a moderately accomplished if minor poet" though adding that "the quality of some of her work has been vindicated by time".<ref>R. F. Foster, W.B. Yeats (Oxford University Press, 2003), p. 530.</ref>

She was introduced to Yeats in 1935. He went on to edit and revise her poems as well as soliciting her comments on his own work. Together they edited the second series of Broadsides: New Irish & English Songs in 1937.<ref>Template:Cite book</ref> Yeats spent much of his final time towards the end of his life with Wellesley at her Sussex home.<ref name="WBYMuses">Template:Cite book</ref> She was at his deathbed in 1939.

Death

{{ safesubst:#invoke:Unsubst||date=__DATE__ |$B= Template:Ambox }} The Duchess of Wellington died at Withyham, Sussex.<ref name=":0" /> After her death, her widower proposed to her half-sister, Lady Serena James (Template:Nee Lumley), widow of his former brother-in-law the Hon. Robert James), but she refused him.

In popular culture

She was one of a series of society beauties photographed as classical figures by Madame Yevonde.<ref>Template:Cite news</ref> Dorothy Wellesley is portrayed by Karla Crome in the 2018 film Vita and Virginia.

Further reading

• Jane Wellesley: Blue Eyes and a Wild Spirit : A Life of Dorothy Wellesley, London : Sandstone Press Limited, 2023, Template:ISBN

Sources

• Letters on Poetry from W. B. Yeats to Dorothy Wellesley (1940, Oxford University Press) edited by Kathleen Raine